Am I obligated to sleep with my spouse?
No. You are under no obligation to engage in sexual activity with anyone. Unfortunately, spousal rape is a reality that many innocent men and women face in unhealthy marital situations. But you can escape from this form of domestic violence. Divorce might give you options for protecting yourself from future harm; you may even be able to file a restraining order while you complete your divorce, and this can prevent contact with your spouse completely.