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Tarek El Moussa and wife headed for divorce

Flip or Flop star Tarek El Moussa is reportedly seeking a divorce from his wife, Christina El Moussa.

In their exclusive interview with PEOPLE last December, the couple revealed that they were ending their seven-year marriage after a heated fight in May 2016. Although the altercation did not involve physical violence, the Orange County police responded to the scene. A friend told the police that Mr. El Moussa grabbed a handgun during the fight. There were no charges filed.

Mr. El Moussa filed for a divorce in January, citing irreconcilable differences. He requested spousal support and joint custody of their children, one year-old son Brayden and a six year-old daughter Taylor.

If you or someone you know is having difficulty filing for a divorce, our lawyers can help. We at Law Office of Andrew A. Bestafka, Esq. are well-versed and skilled in divorce litigation and can properly represent you in court. Get in touch with us at (732) 898-2378 for more information.



Billionaire Bill Ackman and his wife headed for divorce

Bill Ackman, a billionaire activist investor known for his big bets on Herbalife, and his landscape architect wife, Karen Ann Herskovitz, are headed down the path of divorce, Page Six says.

According to the report, the couple had been together for more than 20 years after they got married in 1994 at the St. Regis. Although it is yet to be determined if the two have filed a petition for the dissolution of their marriage, it was confirmed that they hired lawyers to help them come up with the best settlement that would minimize the impact on their three daughters.

The couple’s reported divorce could reach into the hundreds of million of dollars. They are negotiating numerous properties such as their $90 million One57 penthouse, $35 million Beresford apartment, $22 million Bridgehampton waterfront estate, and another $23.5 million mansion.

If you or someone you know is considering filing for a divorce, we can help you. Our divorce attorneys at Law Office of Andrew A. Bestafka, Esq. specialize in family law and can provide you a reliable representation in court. Get in touch with our staff at (732) 898-2378 to learn more about your options.



Divorce in China Increasing from Previous Decades

In China, marital strife seems to be on the rise as the annual divorce rate has doubled from last decade to 3.8 million couples. According to researchers at Peking University, 20% of men and women are unfaithful in their marriages—a number that has elevated in the last 30 years. Some economists attribute the change to an increased willingness from wealthy businessmen to put their own desires above familial obligation, a value that has decreased in significance since improved living standards have given way to financial freedom.

It is not uncommon for rich Chinese husbands— some that hold positions as prestigious as government officials and ministers—to keep a “second wife,” or a mistress that is financially provided for by their lover. Some portions of apartment complexes are even discretely reserved for these mistresses, whom are often provided a living allowance in exchange for sex and companionship.

Migration and social media has also allowed increased opportunities for couples to meet members of the opposite sex after marriage. Some couples do not even live in the same household, making it easier to engage in affairs. Surveys indicate that infidelity is the number one cause of marriages ending, making it no surprise that divorce rates have rocketed.

At Law Office of Andrew A. Bestafka, Esq., our Monmouth County divorce attorneys are well-versed in navigating the complex landscape of divorce, adoption, child support, and other cases of family law. If you are in need of legal services pertaining to these matters, don’t hesitate to contact our offices at (732) 898-2378 for more information.



Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom officially divorced

Three years after TV reality star Khloe Kardashian first filed for divorce, a Los Angeles judge has approved the dissolution of her marriage with former NBA player Lamar Odom.

Although the decision was released last Friday, the court document states the couple’s marriage will be legally dissolved December 17, along with their joint company, Khlomar. Both Kardashian and Odom waived spousal support as part of their agreement.

Kardashian initially filed for divorce last December 2013, but she called it off when Odom was found unconscious in a Las Vegas brothel due to a drug and drinking binge. After the couple’s reconciliation, she filed another petition seeking to end their marriage. She cited “irreconcilable differences.” The two did not have any children but were married for more than four years.

If you or someone you know is going through a stressful divorce, get in touch with a reliable lawyer from the Law Office of Andrew A. Bestafka, Esq.. We have the skills and knowledge to properly represent you in court and protect your rights throughout the legal process. Contact us at (732) 898-2378 to learn more about our practice.



Differences in Divorce Between Seniors

Many people have heard the statistic that in the United States, one in every two married couples will eventually get divorced. Contrary to the popular belief that millennials have the highest divorce rates, the root of the increase in divorce rates comes from the baby boomer generation as they reach retiring age.

“Silver divorces”—or divorces between individuals from around the retirement age—have a unique set of advantages and challenges that differ from divorces between younger couples. While child custody and support are likely not a concern for silver divorces, as children are usually grown and financially independent by this time, there are still financial and emotional concerns caused by asset division between splitting senior couples.

By the time couples reach retirement age, they have generally acquired a substantial amount of wealth and assets; often the most prominent of these is the home that they share. During a divorce, state law usually attempts to divvy assets in a way that is fair, equitable, and a close to an even split between two former spouses. However, this becomes slightly complicated during the division of a 401(k) or IRA for senior couples. This is because while each individual retiree’s income will likely stay the same after a divorce, each spouse will see higher retirement costs. Couples in the midst of a silver divorce are generally retired, or about to retire, and therefore have limited means of obtaining income. Researchers say in cases where dividing a home and 401(k) is not the best solution, a good way to combat this is entering into a reverse mortgage. In a reverse mortgage—reserved for those aged 62 and older—one spouse could receive the home and start a system where they pay income as long as they live in the home, while the other spouse can take the 401(k) account or IRA. Reverse mortgages do not require monthly payments and payments are only due when the last homeowner leaves the house.

The intricacies of divorce law can be a complex landscape. At Law Office of Andrew A. Bestafka, Esq., the adept divorce attorney can help guide you through this process and seek the best possible outcome for your impending divorce. Contact us at (732) 898-2378 to learn more.



Default Divorce: Another Option in New Jersey

In the state of New Jersey, it may not be required that a person seeking a divorce get the approval or even a response from their spouse. The resulting divorce proceedings are called a “divorce by default.”

For the divorce by default to continue, the plaintiff, otherwise understood as the person who filed for divorce, is required to give the correct papers to the defendant, their spouse. If there is no response within a 35-day period, then the plaintiff will have 60 days to submit a request to the court for a default judgment.

2 types of Default Divorce:

Default Divorce by Agreement: A default divorce is often a good option for people who have settled their differences and consulted separate lawyers already to avoid paying both the filing and answering paperwork fees.

Default Divorce without a Court Hearing: There are several places in New Jersey that do not require a court appearance as long as both spouses have made it clear that all required questions have been answered and a settlement has been reached.

If you’re seeking a divorce, it is often the best idea to contact an attorney to discuss your options and desires moving forward. Contact one of our divorce attorneys with Law Office of Andrew A. Bestafka, Esq. by calling (732) 898-2378 and we can potentially help you in your case.



Divorce forms used in New Jersey

There are four major forms that are used in the beginning steps of a divorce that determine the type and reason for the dissolution.

  • Court form 1A refers to a “no-fault” divorce in which the couple has not lived together for a minimum of 18 months before filing.
  • Court form 1D refers to another type of “no-fault” divorce in which the couple has simply cited irreconcilable differences that have been causing problems for at least six months.
  • Court form 1B is the first kind of “fault” divorce in which one party, the defendant, has deserted their spouse. This means that they left with no warning and have remained gone for a full year.
  • Court form 1C is the second kind of “fault” divorce that is filed in cases of cruelty in which the plaintiff has been abused by the defendant within the past three months.

If you need assistance when attempting to distinguish the grounds for your unique situation, consult with one of our experienced divorce lawyers. Contact the Law Office of Andrew A. Bestafka, Esq. at (732) 898-2378 to begin your legal journey.



Divorce impact on financial aid explained by CBRG co-chairs

With divorce affecting nearly half of all married couples by 2016, old unions that share nearly adult children will need to discuss how their divorce will affect their child’s financial aid.

The co-founders of College Benefit Research Group (CBRG), Steven Sirot and David Slater, assert that “assets that are agreed to be used to pay for college should be segregated into custodial accounts for each child separately.”

Sirot and Slater further discuss the effect of divorce on financial aid through the possibility of remarriage: “If the custodial parent gets remarried, the new spouse’s financial information is then considered, which could have devastating effects on the family’s financial aid eligibility.”

It would be a good idea to begin discussing the financial future of you children as early as when child support begins. Contact an attorney with Law Office of Andrew A. Bestafka, Esq. at (732) 898-2378 to discuss legal assistance in creating child support terms or obtaining child support.



Domestic Violence: Arrests, Charges, and the time before Trial

Domestic Violence is the criminal offense of being violent or threatening violence against a family member or housemate, any former or current romantic partner, or the co-parent of the offender’s child.

Two types of arrests occur in conjunction with the offense of domestic violence. The first, a mandatory arrest, is a required arrest in the case of visible injury, violation of a restraining order, the use of a weapon, or when there is an outstanding warrant for arrest. The second, a discretionary arrest, occurs only when there is evidence or reasonable belief that domestic violence had occurred and the victim remains in danger.

Even at the victim’s request, charges of this nature cannot be dropped, regardless of any change in the relationship between the offender and victim. In the case that a civil restraining order—which often prohibits an offender from contacting the victim—is violated, the victim should call authorities as soon as they can.

Over the course of waiting for a trial, many victims experience negative pressure from the offender’s friends or family. When this happens, police should be called immediately.

Domestic violence always warrants legal action and nothing is better to grant you peace of mind. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence or going through a domestic violence case, contact an attorney with Law Office of Andrew A. Bestafka, Esq. at (732) 898-2378 for representation.



Chris Rock now single after 20 years of marriage

Chris Rock is now single after filing for divorce at a New Jersey courthouse.

After 20 years of marriage, Chris and estranged wife Malaak both made a court appearance on Monday, August 22 before a judge and finalized their divorce. The couple married in 1996 and have 2 children, ages 12 and 14. It is also reported that there’s a third child — Ntombi, an 8-year-old from South Africa who was less than a year old when she began living with the Rock family. Chris has remained in constant contact with his 2 kids since the couple parted ways in 2014. Although the terms of the settlement is not publicly known, the case does appear to be closed.

There is no doubt that divorce is one of the most challenging things that can result from a marriage. At the Law Office of Andrew A. Bestafka, Esq., we are prepared to help make your divorce quick and painless. Contact us at (732) 898-2378 to discuss your situation and learn more about our family law practice.