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Child Custody Blog

Does FaceTime Count as Visitation?

child visitation on facetime

The end of a marriage is rarely easy. Even if filing for divorce was your idea in the first place, separating your own life from your spouse’s could bring up a lot of painful and unexpected feelings. These feelings can be particularly intense and difficult to manage when there are children involved. The uncertainty of […]



What You Need to Know About Gaining Custody of a Child in New Jersey

What You Need to Know About Gaining Custody of a Child in New Jersey

The most gut-wrenching, nerve-wracking, and stressful part of a divorce is the battle for custody of your child. The stakes are incredibly high, and understanding the laws and regulations surrounding child custody requires the help of an experienced family law attorney. Understanding New Jersey Custody Laws According to New Jersey Statute 9:2-4 it is in […]



Can I Text My Child When They Are with My Ex?

Can I Text My Child When They Are with My Ex?

The rise of cell phones has put a new and unique spin on custody agreements. In an age when it seems everyone has access to a cellphone, even children, what are the rules that separated parents need to play by? It can be hard to know what is and isn’t acceptable behavior when it comes […]



What Determines Child Custody In New Jersey?

Divorce is unpleasant enough for all parties, but it can be twice as hard when there are children involved. Child custody discussions are never enjoyable, but there are ways to make the process flow as smoothly as possible. Custody and Support In New Jersey, child custody is handled separately from child support. Support is based […]



Two Homes, One Childhood: Exploring Co-parenting with an Ex

In the recently-released Two Homes, One Childhood: A Parenting Plan to Last a Lifetime, psychologist Dr. Robert Emery discusses the intricacies of raising children in separated households. Dr. Emery has over 35 years of experience in studying child psychology and how it is affected by divorce. In Two Homes, One Childhood, Emery discusses the immense […]



Several states move towards shared custody reform

According to a recent press release from the National Parents Organization, lawmaking representatives from twenty states are endeavoring to enact changes to child custody arrangements that alienate the noncustodial parent in order to create situations that support the development of relationships between the child and both parents. This push for shared custody reform comes after […]



100K signatures reached in White House petition over child custody

Actress Kelly Rutherford’s petition to the White House over a child custody dispute has reached the 100,000 signatures required for it to be addressed by the administration, according to a report by The Washington Post on May 13. Two days after Mother’s Day, the actress was able to secure 100,000 signatures for her campaign, warranting the Obama […]



Actress Hilary Duff in child custody battle with NHL’s Mike Comrie

After a long bout of separation and speculation on whether or not Hilary Duff and ex-hockey star Mike Comrie would ever get back together, the couple finally decided on divorce as the best option. Comrie and Duff both acknowledge the existence of a prenuptial agreement that will make sorting out property and financial issues much […]



Jeremy Renner to share physical and legal custody of his daughter

Canadian model Sonni Pacheco and American Hustle actor Jeremy Renner have come to terms for child custody and support of their 2-year-old daughter, according to a report by People on April 1. Renner will get joint legal and physical custody of his daughter Ava, despite Pacheco’s request for primary custody. The 44-year-old actor has also been […]



New Jersey man arrested for violating child custody agreement

According to authorities, 36-year-old New Jersey resident Kristopher Dohm was recently arrested in Florida, along with a man from Tennessee’s most wanted list, after violating the terms of his child custody agreement. Authorities were first contacted after Dohm failed to take his two sons back to their mother’s house in Roxbury Township, instead taking them […]